Two years ago today, I took my last drink. Tomorrow marks 2 years of sobriety. I don’t know if I’d say my life is good or bad, but I can say that’s it’s remarkably different. I’m remarkably different.
It’s been a long time since I’ve had a strong urge to drink. I wish there was a formula for that freedom, but I truly don’t know what combination of efforts took away the desire. I see newcomers struggling, saying “I’m not getting it, whatever it is that everyone else has; I’m missing something.” I want to give them the recipe that will give them relief.
Hardcore AA’ers would say that the formula is the 12 steps. But it’s more than that. You can’t just tell someone to read the big book, go to meetings, and follow the steps. Life is practical and the steps are abstract.
On this soberversary eve, I am overwhelmingly grateful to be sober. I truly did not think this was possible. I spent years sobering up for a month or a week, here and there. I somehow managed 7 months years ago. My father-in-law died and I don’t remember when I gave myself permission to drink, but on one of the days between the funeral and my returning to work, I plunged right back into the bottle. I showed up to my first day back to work drunk. I don’t remember how it happened.
I now know that I was doomed right at the start of those 7 months. Alcoholism isn’t something I was going to be able to beat alone. I’ve discovered over these past 2 years that I am someone who needs a regiment of AA, therapy, and continual self reflection, if I want a chance at staying sober. I don’t know what the rest of my life will look like, but I want it to be sober.
I remember your first post on this journey. And I’m so very happy you’re at two years and counting. : )
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Thank you so much!
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Happy 2 years!
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Thank you!!
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So, so happy for you 🙂
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Thank you Debbie!
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Many congratulations on your two year anniversary!! I’m so happy that you’ve found the recipe that works for you. Every time I read one of these “Soberversary” posts, it gives me so much hope and joy. Do something special for yourself….you’ve earned it. 🙂
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Thank you very much!! I think it’s so important for us all to share triumphs along with the struggles so that we can give each other hope. Thank you!!
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Big hugs!!!
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